Gender: A Picture of God and the Gospel

gender I can’t get through one day without hearing or reading that something is “sexist.” I watched that funny Youtube video this morning of the father covering the song “Rude” and all the comments were calling him sexist. It seems that everything is affected by this so called “issue.” Even something that is supposed to be lighthearted and funny is discolored by accusations of being sexist.

I am a firm believer in the fact that women are capable, intelligent, and unique. But I am also a firm believer in the fact that God created gender on purpose. It says so in Genesis 1:27, “God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.” It was not an accident. God intended that there be men and women to uniquely display His image.

But why did He create gender? 

1. Gender helps us understand God better. 

Concepts - When the Bible speaks of God, the Father, sending His son to die on the cross, we understand that relationship. We know the love that a father has for his son. We can picture the agony that God must have experienced sending His only child to die. When Jesus says in Matthew how He longs to gather His children under His wings like a mother hen gathers her chicks, we understand the tender protectiveness of a mother. Gender helps our finite minds understand deep theological concepts.

Companionship - Gender also helps us understand the Trinity better.God is not a solitary ruler, but interacts with the Son and the Holy Spirit. “Let us make man in our image,” He states in Genesis chapter one. Companionship is the relationship that exists between people. God is a relational being.  He is not distant or private. That is evidenced in the fact that He even created people to have a relationship with. Not only this, but He communicates on a personal level with them. Humans are also social creatures with the desire to be with other people. The woman mirrors God’s quality of and capacity for companionship by having a relationship with the man. Besides a relationship with her Heavenly Father, this is the deepest kind of companionship that a woman can have.

Creativity - God did not have to make men and women. But that fact that He chose to displays His creativity. His diversity is shown through the wide variety of different appearances and personalities that He has fashioned. “Fearfully and wonderfully,” He has formed everyone inside and out. He has made both males and females with abilities to create, to think, to have joy, and to appreciate beauty all to parallel Himself.

2. Gender helps us understand the Gospel better. 

We always say that marriage is picture of the Gospel, but why is that?

Covenant - As Christ made a covenant with the church, so does a husband and a wife. This covenant reflects the choice to love someone even though they are unworthy and selfish. Ephesians 5 discloses how Christ gave up everything for His bride and seeks to nourish and cherish her despite her failures to love Christ in return. Husbands are called to likewise love their wives in this selfless manner. Conversely, as the church humbly serves the Lord, so a wife humbly serves her husband.

Consummation - In Evangelical Feminism & Biblical Truth, Wayne Grudem talks about God’s gift of sex within marriage. He says how sexuality is a specific expression of equality, difference, and unity. The couple has equality through what Christ has done on the cross, but their bodies are different in order for them to accomplish the distinctive purposes that He has for them. Through marriage God unites two equal but different people to work together to bring Him glory.

Mary Kassian says that the reason for sex within marriage is to tell a story. It is to tell the story of manhood, womanhood, marriage, and Christ’s bride, the church. Joyous and intimate, the act of sex within marriage describes how wonderful Christ’s wedding and union with His bride will be. This joy can only take place within a covenant. The union is fulfilled after the legal covenant is completed.

Marriage is a symbolic of the covenant that Christ has with the church. It helps us to understand the church’s relationship with Christ and the joy that we can anticipate when Christ returns for His bride.

Friends, I know that this was a long blog post. It was a 12 page college research paper at one point! But I wanted to share this with you today because I long that you understand the importance of gender – how it helps our limited minds understand God and the Gospel better. I pray that instead of abolishing gender, we celebrate it as a beautiful picture of God and the Gospel.


Before Devotions

Devotions Before my devotions, there is a small section of Psalm 119 that I have been pouring over ever since a pastor at my church spoke on it a couple of weeks ago. I have been praying it every morning – asking the Lord to reveal His word and to help me learn it.

Teach me, O Lord, the way of Your statutes. And I shall observe it to the end.

Matthew Henry comments, “Teach me thy statutes, not the mere words, but the way of applying them to myself.” The psalmist desires that the words penetrate his heart and permeate his actions in a permanent way. 

Give me understanding, that I may observe Your law and keep it with all my heart. 

Without the work of the Holy Spirit, we cannot understand God’s Word let alone keep it. May we pray earnestly for a mind to discern God’s commands and a tender heart that will whole-heartedly obey.

Make me walk in the path of Your commandments, for I delight in it.

This reminds me of the hymn line, “Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it, Prone to leave the God I love.” How prone we are to wander away from the very God we claim to love! I pray that the Lord makes me walk in His ways, that He literally marches me down the path of holiness. I am so apt to stray, may He keep His hand upon me so that I keep His commands.

Incline my heart to Your testimonies and not to dishonest gain. 

I read that the word for incline here means to bend or stretch. May the Lord change my natural bent to sinfulness toward holiness. May He transform my heart to be inclined to obey and please Him.

Turn away my eyes from looking at vanity, and revive me in Your ways. 

Hebrews 12:1 –  Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,

Establish Your word to Your servant, as that which produces reverence for You.

Only when we have a true understanding of who God is, as revealed in His Word, can we give Him the honor that He deserves. As we grow in knowledge of Him, so does our reverence.

Turn away my reproach which I dread, for Your ordinances are good. 

Commentators disagree on what this verse means, whether it is the reproach that comes from sinning or the reproach that comes from evil men when you obey God’s commands. One commentary said something that I thought was interesting that this was a prayer to keep from the reproach that comes from an inconsistent life. He said, “Our hope of freedom from the reproach of inconsistency is in God’s power, quickening us to live according to His Word, which He leads us to love.”

Behold, I long for Your precepts, revive me through Your righteousness.

I pray that I have a heart like this, one that longs for God’s Word.

I encourage you to read through Psalm 119:33-40 before you have your devotions. Pray that you will learn to apply God’s Word, understand it, walk according to it, that He will change your heart toward it, remove distractions to it, grow your reverence for it, and help you to be consistent in your reading of it.


Jesus, Others, You

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I am excited to share that I am blogging today over at The Quiet Place Blog! Head over there to read my first post as a monthly contributor!


Life Lately + Giveaway

Our lives have changed a lot recently and we are excited to see what the Lord has us. We recently quit our job as resident managers in the city outside of Los Angeles and moved to a much more rural area. We are excited to have more free time for ministry, relationships, and walks in the summer evenings.


It’s amazing how quickly this place has become home.


We have the privilege of serving on the events committee for our Sunday School class. We rented out a bowling alley and went bowling together. P.S. My husband is getting all fancy with this photography thing! ;-)

 I like her style of bowling.

It’s always a joy to hear my husband play in church.


We are loving the summer evenings.


I am teaming up with Amanda from the Lady Okie Blog, Beka from Sunshine to the Square Inch, and Miss Nutralicious to bring you a Runner’s Box giveaway. This monthly box subscription is filled with snacks that are perfect for runners.

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The Revolving Door of Sanctification


Sin and despair, like the sea waves cold,
Threaten the soul with infinite loss;
Grace that is greater, yes, grace untold,
Points to the refuge, the mighty cross.

The more I study Scripture, the more I realize my sin. The more I realize my sin, the more it drives me to study Scripture. This is the revolving door of sanctification.

It is a constant process of realizing my need for Christ. The more I mature in my faith, the more I recognize my depravity and just how little I actually know the Lord.

It can be discouraging. At times, I am overwhelmed by my failure and ashamed at my wicked tendencies. But here is where the rubber meets the road.

This is the Gospel. 

Unworthy sinners with nothing good to offer. Christ, perfect and sinless, bears our punishment. Guilt-removed, we can have a relationship with Him. Grace and truth meet so that we can grow to become more like our Savior. Recognizing ever more our need for Him.

Realizing our sin should not be discouraging. It is encouraging because it means that we are growing in Christ. We are maturing in likeness of our Savior. As we study Scripture, the Holy Spirit works in our life to convict and transform. We realize our need for the Lord and we desire to know Him more. The revolving door of sanctification.


For by works of the law no human being will be justified in his sight, since through the law comes knowledge of sin. But now the righteousness of God has been manifested apart from the law, although the Law and the Prophets bear witness to it— the righteousness of God through faith in Jesus Christ for all who believe. For there is no distinction: for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus. Romans 3:20-24

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